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<title><![CDATA[Killer Sales Presentations]]></title>
<description><![CDATA[<div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">Last week, I spoke for the <em>Philadelphia Business Journal.</em> They were doing a Sales Boot Camp. My topic was &ldquo;Killer Sales Presentations.&rdquo; </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">Before discussing the 10 reasons that sales presentations fail &hellip; and how to avoid them, I first gave a series of sales presentation principles for people to keep in mind.</span></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">&nbsp;</div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">Here are the first 6 (of 12) &hellip; in no particular order:</span></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">&nbsp;</div><br /><div style="TEXT-INDENT: -0.1in; MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.35in"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">&middot;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">People like to buy, but they don&rsquo;t want to be sold.</span>&nbsp;</div><br /><div style="TEXT-INDENT: -0.1in; MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.35in"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">&middot;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">People do business with those they like and trust.</span>&nbsp;</div><br /><div style="TEXT-INDENT: -0.1in; MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.35in"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">&middot;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">People do things for their own reasons, not yours.</span>&nbsp;</div><br /><div style="TEXT-INDENT: -0.1in; MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.35in"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">&middot;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">People make decisions with their hearts, and justify them with their heads.</span>&nbsp;</div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.25in"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">(If you don&rsquo;t believe me, think about the person you married or the house you bought. Logical or emotional?)</span></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">&middot;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">The only way to change peoples&rsquo; minds is to help keep them open. </span></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; (</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">In other words, don&rsquo;t hit them with ideas that are hard for them to accept.</span></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt"></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; &middot;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">Features tell; benefits sell. Spend your time explaining how the feature helps to solve the customer&rsquo;s problem.</span></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">&nbsp;</div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">How are you doing with all of these? </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">Next time, I&rsquo;ll give you the rest of the principles, and discuss the 10 reasons that sales presentations fail. </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">Keep in mind &ndash; we are <em>always</em> selling &hellip; if not products or services, our ideas and credibility.</span></div>]]></description>
<date>8/17/2010</date>
<time>10:35:00 AM</time>
<link>http://www.brodypro.com/blog//?view=plink&amp;id=168</link>
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<title><![CDATA[Technical Presentations Don’t Have to Be Tricky: Keep Them Simple for Success]]></title>
<description><![CDATA[<span style="FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;"><o:p><font size="3"><br /><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">The definition of genius is to make the complicated simple. </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">Of course, that isn&rsquo;t really the definition. But, it <em>is</em> an ability that goes a long way as a leader -- and also when presenting information.<o:p></o:p></span></p><br /><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; FONT-SIZE: 8pt"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></span></p><br /><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">We live in a complex and technical world. People need to understand what is going on around them. If you can present complex or technical ideas in a clear manner, you will become invaluable to your organization.<o:p></o:p></span></p><br /><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; FONT-SIZE: 8pt"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></span></p><br /><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">How can you do this? As always, know your audience. What is important to them? How deep do need to go? <o:p></o:p></span></p><br /><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; FONT-SIZE: 8pt"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></span></p><br /><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><strong><em><span style="FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">The goal isn&rsquo;t to show them how smart you are, but make them feel smart so they are open to your ideas.</span></em><span style="FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; FONT-SIZE: 8pt"><o:p></o:p></span></strong></p><br /><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; FONT-SIZE: 8pt"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></span></p><br /><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">Make sure you break down your ideas into manageable pieces. By doing so, you make the ideas easier to digest and your audience doesn&rsquo;t struggle to grasp your message.<o:p></o:p></span></p><br /><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; FONT-SIZE: 8pt"><br /><br />Be sure you are using lingo that everyone understands. Jargon and acronyms are a sure way to confuse your audience. You can use figures of speech (analogies, metaphors and similes) to explain your ideas. Remember to paint the picture, and tell the story.<o:p></o:p></span></p><br /><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; FONT-SIZE: 8pt"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></span></p><br /><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; FONT-SIZE: 8pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">Complicated and technical topics don&rsquo;t have to be overwhelming. Just keep in mind this mantra: Make the complicated simple.</span></p><br /></font></o:p></span>]]></description>
<date>8/12/2010</date>
<time>12:03:00 PM</time>
<link>http://www.brodypro.com/blog//?view=plink&amp;id=167</link>
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<title><![CDATA[Corporate Climate Primed for Training & Development: Time to Start Spending Now!]]></title>
<description><![CDATA[<div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">From all I am reading, corporate profits are increasing, and corporate spending continues to decline. </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">Given the overspending environment we had in the &lsquo;90s, and early &lsquo;00s, this is and understandable trend. But is this long-term thinking?</span></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">&nbsp;</div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">Where <strong><em>should </em></strong>money be spent if we are looking to the future? I suggest two primary areas:</span></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">&nbsp;</div><br /><div style="TEXT-INDENT: -0.25in; MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">1)<span style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">Hire expertise.</span></strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt"> Look for qualified individuals who can excel in the new business environment. This means employees who have diverse backgrounds and understand the importance of building relationships -- and, of course, people who are able to communicate well.</span></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><strong>&nbsp;</strong></div><br /><div style="TEXT-INDENT: -0.25in; MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">2)<span style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">Have offerings that retain and engage current employees.</span></strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt"> What does this mean? Of course, money is always nice, but it isn&rsquo;t the only option. Training and career development programs are critical. What knowledge and skills do your current employees need in order to excel? Although web-based training is less costly, it won&rsquo;t replace the power of face to face. In times like these, the ability to build relationships helps the bottom line. Period.</span></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">&nbsp;</div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">We are seeing some of the most successful companies realize this, and are, therefore, increasing their training budgets. </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">Given that this is the new &ldquo;normal,&rdquo; companies can&rsquo;t continue to wait and see what happens and still maintain the necessary edge. </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">It&rsquo;s time to start spending, so you can measure the return!</span></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">&nbsp;</div>]]></description>
<date>8/2/2010</date>
<time>4:29:00 PM</time>
<link>http://www.brodypro.com/blog//?view=plink&amp;id=166</link>
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<title><![CDATA[Don’t Get Lost in the “Twitterverse” or Facebook Fan pages: Face-to-Face Communication Still Key for Effective Networking]]></title>
<description><![CDATA[<div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">You can tweet, blog, and update your status on Facebook and LinkedIn &ndash; there all good ways to connect with people ... past, present and future. </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">However, let&rsquo;s not assume that this &ldquo;cyber connecting&rdquo; will negate or replace the importance of face-to-face networking.</span></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">Unfortunately, with the increasing popularity and use of social networking sites, people are forgetting the fine art of networking. </span></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">&nbsp;</div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">Let me give you five pointers to ensure this doesn&rsquo;t happen to you:</span></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">&nbsp;</div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><strong><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">1) Remember, networking isn&rsquo;t an event, it&rsquo;s a process.</span></strong><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; FONT-SIZE: 8pt"> You have the opportunity to meet people everywhere, every day. So be open and look for such opportunities whatever you&rsquo;re doing.</span></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">&nbsp;</div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><strong><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">2) Pay attention to how you come across to others.</span></strong><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; FONT-SIZE: 8pt"> Some considerations &ndash; smile, be well groomed, and remember the importance of a good handshake.</span></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">&nbsp;</div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><strong><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">3) Prepare your self-introduction. </span></strong><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">What do you say about yourself; what do you want people to know about you. </span></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">&nbsp;</div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><strong><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">4) Be interested in others.</span></strong><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; FONT-SIZE: 8pt"> The more you find out about others, the smarter you &ldquo;look&rdquo; to them in conversation.</span></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">&nbsp;</div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><strong><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">5) Follow up.</span></strong><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; FONT-SIZE: 8pt"> Remember to move from contact to connection. Keep in touch. Always look for ways to help your networking contacts.</span></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">&nbsp;</div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><strong><em><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">Social networking is important, but it should <u>never</u> replace &ndash; nor come at the expense of &ndash; face-to-face connections.</span></em></strong>&nbsp;</div>]]></description>
<date>7/15/2010</date>
<time>4:08:00 PM</time>
<link>http://www.brodypro.com/blog//?view=plink&amp;id=165</link>
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<title><![CDATA[The Squeaky Speaker Voice Doesn’t Get any Audience “Grease”]]></title>
<description><![CDATA[<div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">What if your voice squeaks during a crucial presentation? </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">We know it&rsquo;s not a second shot of puberty kicking in.</span></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">&nbsp;</div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><strong><em><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">Typically, a speaker whose voice squeaks when he or she presents is breathing improperly &ndash; a condition often brought on by nerves. <br /><br /></span></em></strong><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; FONT-SIZE: 8pt"><br /><br />What a surprise, a speaker who&rsquo;s nervous! Yes, we all get butterflies from time to time.</span></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">&nbsp;</div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">But, it&rsquo;s important for speakers to eliminate these squeaky moments, because they will &hellip;</span></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">&nbsp;</div><br /><div style="TEXT-INDENT: -0.25in; MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Wingdings; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">&uuml;&nbsp;</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">sound more credible and confident </span></div><br /><div style="TEXT-INDENT: -0.25in; MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Wingdings; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">&uuml;&nbsp;</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">be easier to listen to (reducing the audience &ldquo;zone out&rdquo; factor)</span></div><br /><div style="TEXT-INDENT: -0.25in; MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Wingdings; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">&uuml;&nbsp;</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">be taken more seriously</span></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">&nbsp;</div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">So, how do you eliminate these squeaks and calm your nerves?</span></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; FONT-SIZE: 8pt"><br /><br />One way to control this obvious symptom of stage fright is to learn to breathe from your diaphragm.</span></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">&nbsp;</div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">Below are some steps for proper abdominal breathing. You can do them right before you get up to speak.</span></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">&nbsp;</div><br /><div style="TEXT-INDENT: -0.25in; MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">1)<span style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">Sit upright in a chair, and place both feet flat on the floor. </span></div><br /><div style="TEXT-INDENT: -0.25in; MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">2)<span style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">Rest your hands in your lap. </span></div><br /><div style="TEXT-INDENT: -0.25in; MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">3)<span style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">Take a deep breath through the nose, while extending your stomach. Push your stomach out as the air comes into and fills your lungs. Your shoulders can rise, and may possibly go back a bit.</span></div><br /><div style="TEXT-INDENT: -0.25in; MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">4)<span style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">Place one hand on your chest, and the other on your abdomen. Which hand rises more? If it&rsquo;s the hand on your abdomen, you are breathing properly.</span></div><br /><div style="TEXT-INDENT: -0.25in; MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">5)<span style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">If NOT, pull your breath deeper into your lungs. Once your lungs are full, hold the air to a count of six and then let it escape from your nose. </span></div><br /><div style="TEXT-INDENT: -0.25in; MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">6)<span style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">Repeat, taking each deep breath slowly through the nose.</span></div><br /><div style="TEXT-INDENT: -0.25in; MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">7)<span style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">Do this 10 times.</span></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">&nbsp;</div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">We are all born with vocal chords &ndash; some are longer and wider than others. It&rsquo;s possible to modulate your voice so it&rsquo;s a help not a hindrance when you present.</span></div>]]></description>
<date>7/12/2010</date>
<time>4:00:00 PM</time>
<link>http://www.brodypro.com/blog//?view=plink&amp;id=164</link>
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<title><![CDATA[4 Techniques for Speakers to Diffuse Hostile Questions]]></title>
<description><![CDATA[<div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">Just in case during your next presentation you get some hostile questions, here are four techniques you can use to diffuse the situation and emerge unscathed &ndash; helping to secure a successful presentation from start to finish.</span></div><br /><br /><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt"></span></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">&middot; </span><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">The Art of the Spin &ndash; </span></strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">when paraphrasing the hostile question, turn it around. &ldquo;The real question you need to be asking is &hellip;.&rdquo; Or, &ldquo;You&rsquo;re asking about the investment (never say &ldquo;price&rdquo; or &ldquo;cost&rdquo;) &hellip; it is only XX. And, when you consider XX, it is really priceless.&rdquo;</span></div><br /><br /><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">&middot; </span><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">Leave Your &ldquo;But&rdquo; Out &ndash; </span></strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">You can acknowledge the person&rsquo;s concern or point, then say, &ldquo;and this is why we did that&rdquo; &ndash; as opposed to saying, &ldquo;Yes; that happened, but &hellip;.&rdquo;&nbsp; The word &ldquo;but&rdquo; negates everything that you said before it. Use &ldquo;and&rdquo; instead of &ldquo;but&rdquo; &ndash; in other words, leave your but out of every argument!</span></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt"></span></div><br /><br /><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">&middot; </span><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">Handling the Hot Potato &ndash; </span></strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">When challenged, don&rsquo;t reply by immediately defending your point of view. Instead say, &ldquo;Where did your information come from?&rdquo; Or, &ldquo;What part of my material do you disagree with?&rdquo; In other words, throw the &ldquo;hot potato&rdquo; back at the questioner for further explanation before defending yourself.</span></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt"></span></div><br /><br /><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt"></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">&middot; </span><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">The VIPP &ndash; </span></strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">When the other person is visibly upset or angry, don&rsquo;t even try to be rational in the beginning &ndash; that only escalates things. Instead, try the VIPP approach: </span></div><br /><br /><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in"><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">V &ndash;</span></strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt"> Let the person <strong>Vent.</strong></span></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt"></span><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">I &ndash; </span></strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">Make an <strong>&ldquo;I&rdquo; statement</strong> like, &ldquo;I hear what you&rsquo;re saying &hellip;.&rdquo;Paraphrase what the person has said, and take a stab at how he or she is feeling about the issue.</span><br /><br /></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">These first two steps typically ensure that the other person believes you have truly heard what he or she just said, and understand his or her feelings about the topic. At this point, you are able to appeal to reason. </span><br /><br /><br /><br /></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in"><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">P &ndash; Probe. </span></strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">Ask questions to get more information, so you understand logically what the real issues are.</span><br /><br /></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in"><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">P -- Problem solve. </span></strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">Now you can problem solve, or you can refute the question based on the evidence and logic, not emotion.</span><br /><br /></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">Speakers should always anticipate what the challenging questions could be, so they can prepare not only their responses, but also in many cases, include the information within the actual presentation. </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">Remember, the best defense is a good offense!</span></div>]]></description>
<date>6/15/2010</date>
<time>2:41:00 PM</time>
<link>http://www.brodypro.com/blog//?view=plink&amp;id=163</link>
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<title><![CDATA[Presentation Skills Q & A Pointer: Effectively Control Stage Hogs]]></title>
<description><![CDATA[<p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">Today, I was teaching a presentation skills training program. Participants were most interested in how to handle an audience member who is a &ldquo;stage hog.&rdquo; <o:p></o:p></span></p><br /><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; FONT-SIZE: 8pt"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></span></p><br /><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">This type of speaking situation often occurs internally with an organization &ndash; people that can be considered stage hogs are well-known for their annoying behavior, and are typically not people with power. They are the people who like to be heard, like to interrupt, and have a need to be noticed.<o:p></o:p></span></p><br /><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; FONT-SIZE: 8pt"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></span></p><br /><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">The best way to deal with stage hogs is to connect with them in advance (via phone/face-to-face/e-mail). Let them know that you look forward to the upcoming presentation, and say, &ldquo;You always have an interesting approach to things. I&rsquo;ll be talking about XXXX. What are your thoughts?&rdquo; <br /><br /><br /><br />Let them respond and be attentive -- after all, you are picking their brains and feeding their egos! Then, say, &ldquo;You have been very helpful. During the presentation, I want to answer the questions myself -- you understand that, don&rsquo;t you?&rdquo; Of course, they will say, &ldquo;Yes.&rdquo; Then, quickly add, &ldquo;If, however, anyone asks about XXXX, can I call on you?&rdquo; You have now narrowed their area for being noticed. At the actual presentation, you can say to the audience, &ldquo;I will be taking questions (throughout the presentation, at the end, etc.). If anyone has a question about XXX, John will be answering them.&rdquo;<o:p></o:p></span></p><br /><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; FONT-SIZE: 8pt"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></span></p><br /><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">Since people probably don&rsquo;t want to hear from John, because he&rsquo;s a stage hog, they most likely won&rsquo;t ask any questions &ndash; or at least if they do, they know John will respond.<o:p></o:p></span></p><br /><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; FONT-SIZE: 8pt"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></span></p><br /><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">If you think about it, this is how politicians deal with the dissenters in their audiences. They do their real work behind the scenes. Being preemptive with the stage hog is a good technique.<o:p></o:p></span></p><br /><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; FONT-SIZE: 8pt"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></span></p><br /><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">Next week, I&rsquo;ll share more ideas about how to deal with difficult audience members. Until then, feel free to share some of your best practices for coping with &ldquo;stage hogs&rdquo; during a presentation.<o:p></o:p></span></p>]]></description>
<date>6/10/2010</date>
<time>11:12:00 AM</time>
<link>http://www.brodypro.com/blog//?view=plink&amp;id=162</link>
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<title><![CDATA[BRODY's at The Society of Pharmaceutical and Biotech Trainers (SPBT) 2010 Conference]]></title>
<description><![CDATA[<p>Come and visit Donna Eldridge and Amy Glass at booth #414!!!!</p><br /><p>SPBT 2010 Conference &amp; Tradeshow</p><br /><p>Gaylord Convention Ctr. in Kissimmee,FL</p><br /><br /><br /><p><a href="http://www.brodypro.com/sbpt2010photo.JPG"><img style="WIDTH: 267px; HEIGHT: 215px" alt="" width="675" height="486" src="http://www.brodypro.com/sbpt2010photo.JPG" /></a></p>]]></description>
<date>6/8/2010</date>
<time>4:51:00 PM</time>
<link>http://www.brodypro.com/blog//?view=plink&amp;id=161</link>
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<title><![CDATA[You Can’t Ace the Q & A If There Aren’t Any Questions]]></title>
<description><![CDATA[<div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">I blogged about the ABCs of the Q &amp; A.&nbsp;As I said, handling the question-and-answer session is a critical component of successful presentations. But, you can&rsquo;t master this aspect of public speaking if you can hear a pin drop when you or the moderator ask if there <em>are</em> any questions.</span></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">&nbsp;</div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">Just yesterday, I was asked by a presenter I was coaching, &ldquo;How can I get people to ask questions? No one ever seems to want to ask me any after my presentations.&rdquo; It wasn&rsquo;t hard to understand why. This person had his arms crossed during most of his presentation, didn&rsquo;t make eye contact, had a scowl on his face, and he spoke at warp speed.</span></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">&nbsp;</div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">Here are my top 8 strategies for ensuring that you receive questions from audience members:</span></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">&nbsp;</div><br /><div style="TEXT-INDENT: -0.1in; MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.35in"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Symbol; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">&middot;</span><strong><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">Early on in your presentation, let the audience know that you will be taking questions and when</span></strong><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; FONT-SIZE: 8pt"> &ndash; it could be throughout, at breaking points, or at the end. You decide.</span></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">&nbsp;</div><br /><div style="TEXT-INDENT: -0.1in; MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.35in"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Symbol; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">&middot;</span><strong><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">When you do open for questions, watch your <em>visual </em>presentation &ndash;</span></strong><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; FONT-SIZE: 8pt"> do you look receptive and interested? Be sure to look at your audience members and not at your notes or slides. Open up your gestures. Walk towards people. Have a pleasant expression, and avoid rolling your eyes or sighing as if to say, &ldquo;That was a stupid question.&rdquo;</span></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">&nbsp;</div><br /><div style="TEXT-INDENT: -0.1in; MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.35in"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Symbol; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">&middot;</span><strong><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">When asking for questions, be assumptive. </span></strong><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">Say, &ldquo;Who wants to open with the first question?&rdquo; Or, &ldquo;What questions do you have?&rdquo; Note, I didn&rsquo;t say, &ldquo;Do you have any questions?&rdquo;</span></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">&nbsp;</div><br /><div style="TEXT-INDENT: -0.1in; MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.35in"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Symbol; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">&middot;</span><strong><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">Once you&rsquo;ve asked for questions, be comfortable with silence</span></strong><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">. Give people time to think about what types of questions they may want to ask. You may feel like they&rsquo;re staring at you. But the reality is that most people are deciding what to ask, or <em>whether</em> to ask a question. So, give them time.</span></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">&nbsp;</div><br /><div style="TEXT-INDENT: -0.1in; MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.35in"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Symbol; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">&middot;</span><strong><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">If no one asks a question, then you need to revert to your previously prepared sample questions.</span></strong><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; FONT-SIZE: 8pt"> You can introduce these by saying, &ldquo;When I first learned this, I wondered&hellip;&rdquo; Or, &ldquo;A question I&rsquo;m frequently asked is &hellip;&rdquo;</span></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">&nbsp;</div><br /><div style="TEXT-INDENT: -0.1in; MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.35in"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Symbol; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">&middot;</span><strong><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">Avoid grading or judging any question.</span></strong><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; FONT-SIZE: 8pt"> In other words, don&rsquo;t say, &ldquo;That&rsquo;s a good question.&rdquo; If you compliment some questions and not others, it comes across as judgmental. If you compliment all, it sounds perfunctory.</span></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">&nbsp;</div><br /><div style="TEXT-INDENT: -0.1in; MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.35in"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Symbol; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">&middot;</span><strong><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">Never embarrass the questioner.</span></strong><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; FONT-SIZE: 8pt"> When you say things like, &ldquo;I covered that in my presentation,&rdquo; or, &ldquo;As I said before &hellip;,&rdquo; not only will it discourage the person who asked, but most likely the rest of the group as well. Just answer the question, or take it off line if it doesn&rsquo;t relate.</span></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">&nbsp;</div><br /><div style="TEXT-INDENT: -0.1in; MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.35in"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Symbol; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">&middot;</span><strong><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">When answering any questions, make your reply brief. </span></strong><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">Long answers discourage more questions.</span></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">&nbsp;</div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">Since having questions asked is an essential part of any effective business presentation &ndash; giving presenters a chance to clarify and expand on their ideas &ndash; successful speakers need effective techniques to encourage them. I&rsquo;d love to hear from presenters if they have any other techniques that have worked well for them. I&rsquo;ll share best practices.</span></div>]]></description>
<date>6/7/2010</date>
<time>9:25:00 AM</time>
<link>http://www.brodypro.com/blog//?view=plink&amp;id=160</link>
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<title><![CDATA[My Free Accountability Presentation at VirtualU on May 18]]></title>
<description><![CDATA[<div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">It&rsquo;s fair to say that we&rsquo;re entering a brave new world in lots of ways. One has to do with the shift in how training is being delivered &ndash; or at least supplemented. </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">There is no doubt that webinars have a place in the training mix of modalities. In fact, BRODY Professional Development delivers them quite often. </span></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">&nbsp;</div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">We also do webinars in advance of an instructor-led, face-to-face training program. By doing this, we can cut the lecture part of the program and focus on application and hands-on practice of the skills &ndash; not to mention coach participants through a process.</span></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">&nbsp;</div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">Webinar platforms have greatly improved in recent years, to allow polling, quizzes, and other types of interaction. Yet, if you are like me, you still find this format a bit boring, too easy to let yourself multi-task while attending one.</span></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><strong>&nbsp;</strong></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">BRODY has been exploring alternatives to the standard webinar for training. Our search has led us to Digitell&rsquo;s VirtualU platform &ndash; a 3D virtual universe where participants create an avatar to navigate the learning experience in virtual auditoriums and lecture halls. Participants can chat via text messages, live Twitter feeds, and via a VOIP sound connection. </span></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt"><br /><br />VirtualU is a lot like the virtual universe, SecondLife, where I once delivered an informal &ldquo;fireside chat&rdquo; about one of my books to an all-female audience of varied professionals.<br /><br /><br /><br />Mark your calendar. Tuesday, May 18 at 3 pm ET, I&rsquo;ll be on Virtual U delivering my presentation &ldquo;Accountability: 5 Keys to Manage Success (Yours &amp; Others).&rdquo;</span></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">&nbsp;</div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">So, join my VirtualU avatar &ndash; who looks a lot better than I do &ndash; as I discuss the topic of accountability.</span></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">&nbsp;</div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">The good news is that it&rsquo;s not too late to register, and the price is right &ndash; FREE. </span></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">&nbsp;</div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">If you&rsquo;re interested in learning more about exciting, new training and development platform &ndash; and receiving some useful content &ndash; <a href="http://bit.ly/bQYUkG">sign up today</a>!</span></div>]]></description>
<date>5/18/2010</date>
<time>9:37:00 AM</time>
<link>http://www.brodypro.com/blog//?view=plink&amp;id=159</link>
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<title><![CDATA[Kenexa’s Rudy Karsan Agrees: Effective Communication Reaches Your Audience]]></title>
<description><![CDATA[<p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">I recently read an interview with Rudy Karsan, Co-Founder, Chairman and CEO of Kenexa, which appeared in the April 2010 issue of<em> Smart Business Philadelphia</em>. He was talking about leadership and communication. Karsan said, &ldquo;The single biggest mistake I see leaders making is that they view communication as a one-way street. When you are talking or writing, the question that people ask themselves is, &lsquo;How can I say this in the best possible way?&rsquo; But, if you replace the question with, &lsquo;How can the recipient hear this in the most effective way?&rsquo; you might have a different answer.&rdquo; <br /><br /></span></p><br /><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">He further stated, &ldquo;All communication is driven by two things: a rational component and an emotional component. If you can attach both components in a bandwith that is tied into the receiver, who is receiving information in a manner that is most effective and efficient for them, then you are the most successful.&rdquo; I love it! It&rsquo;s just what I focus on when I coach leaders within organizations. When we do our training around presentation skills, we say that speaking needs to be audience-centered to be successful. What are some things to keep in mind in the communication process?</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; FONT-SIZE: 8pt"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></span></p><br /><br /><br /><p style="TEXT-INDENT: -0.25in; MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1" class="MsoListParagraphCxSpFirst"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Symbol; FONT-SIZE: 8pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol"><span style="mso-list: Ignore">&middot;<span style="FONT: 7pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">What&rsquo;s in it for the listener?<o:p></o:p></span></p><br /><br /><br /><p style="TEXT-INDENT: -0.25in; MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1" class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Symbol; FONT-SIZE: 8pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol"><span style="mso-list: Ignore">&middot;<span style="FONT: 7pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">How does this person take in information?<o:p></o:p></span></p><br /><br /><br /><p style="TEXT-INDENT: -0.25in; MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1" class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Symbol; FONT-SIZE: 8pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol"><span style="mso-list: Ignore">&middot;<span style="FONT: 7pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">What are the trigger words that will impact this person positively or negatively?<o:p></o:p></span></p><br /><br /><br /><p style="TEXT-INDENT: -0.25in; MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1" class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Symbol; FONT-SIZE: 8pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol"><span style="mso-list: Ignore">&middot;<span style="FONT: 7pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">What words need to be clarified?<o:p></o:p></span></p><br /><br /><br /><p style="TEXT-INDENT: -0.25in; MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1" class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Symbol; FONT-SIZE: 8pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol"><span style="mso-list: Ignore">&middot;<span style="FONT: 7pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">What tone is best to use?<o:p></o:p></span></p><br /><br /><br /><p style="TEXT-INDENT: -0.25in; MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1" class="MsoListParagraphCxSpLast"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Symbol; FONT-SIZE: 8pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol"><span style="mso-list: Ignore">&middot;<span style="FONT: 7pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">How can I initiate questions and conversation?</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; FONT-SIZE: 8pt"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></span></p><br /><br /><br /><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; FONT-SIZE: 8pt">These are all important questions to remember -- presentation skills/behaviors that be learned. My hat is off to Rudy Karsan, and to Kenexa. No wonder it is a successful company!<o:p></o:p></span></p><br /><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal">&nbsp;</p>]]></description>
<date>5/11/2010</date>
<time>12:10:00 PM</time>
<link>http://www.brodypro.com/blog//?view=plink&amp;id=158</link>
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<title><![CDATA[Greeting Card Conundrum: Is It Proper to Send Paper or Electronic?]]></title>
<description><![CDATA[<div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">Mother&rsquo;s Day is approaching &ndash; a great time for the greeting card companies. Granted, there are eCards for everything, but are they valued the same way? The answer I&rsquo;ve gotten is mixed. According to the Greeting Card Association, more than 7 billion paper cards were bought last year &ndash; even though eCards are readily available (and much cheaper, even free in some cases). <br /><br /><br /><br /><strong>So, what is the etiquette of card sending?</strong></span></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><strong>&nbsp;</strong></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">For birthdays, either type of card will work &ndash; and if you forget, it&rsquo;s quicker to send an eCard. Congratulations for a new job, etc., can be either type of card, too. When it comes to expressing sympathy, celebrating anniversaries, or recognizing this upcoming Mother&rsquo;s Day, however, my suggestion is to spring for the traditional paper card. If you don&rsquo;t want to spend the money, nothing beats a handwritten note. I realize that I may sound like a dinosaur in this age of electronic communication, but sometimes,<strong><em> you just can&rsquo;t beat the old-fashioned approach.</em></strong></span></div>]]></description>
<date>5/3/2010</date>
<time>12:00:00 PM</time>
<link>http://www.brodypro.com/blog//?view=plink&amp;id=154</link>
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<title><![CDATA[The Power of Presence – It Can Be Learned & Shared]]></title>
<description><![CDATA[<div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">For many of us, the ability to shake hands, look someone in the eye, stand tall, and at least appear confident is second nature. But, many people feel they haven&rsquo;t earned the right to appear this way &ndash; owning their achievements and exude confidence. How sad is that?</span></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">&nbsp;</div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">I remember teaching a networking program at a bank several years ago. When I asked what each person&rsquo;s objective was, one said, &ldquo;To walk into a room as confidently as you do.&rdquo; I responded to her, &ldquo;How do you know how confident I am? You only know what you see, not what I am feeling.&rdquo;</span></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">&nbsp;</div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">This same hesitance and uncertainty was evident yesterday, as I volunteered to speak at an afterschool program in an underprivileged neighborhood. My goal was to give these 13- to 18-year-old students the confidence to shake my hand, look me in the eye, and state their point of view. It wasn&rsquo;t an easy task.</span></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">&nbsp;</div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">Who can you help today? Who can you help unleash their own personal power? It is a gift that will have major payoff. Think about it.</span></div>]]></description>
<date>4/29/2010</date>
<time>10:01:00 AM</time>
<link>http://www.brodypro.com/blog//?view=plink&amp;id=153</link>
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<title><![CDATA[Manners Do Matter -- in Life & Work – So, Improve Them]]></title>
<description><![CDATA[<div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt"><font face="Arial"><br /><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'">Do good manners still matter in our high tech, fast-paced business casual environment? Resoundingly, yes! Impressions and relationships are based on behavior.</span></p><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'"><br /><br />A smile, a good hand shake, proper grooming, introducing others, putting people at ease, and using technology wisely all are not rocket science. But, knowing the proper protocols and understanding the impact, requires caring about and considering others.</span></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">&nbsp;</div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'">Etiquette (we refer to it as professional savvy) is based on logic, kindness and efficiency. Granted, as little as 10 years ago, we weren&rsquo;t teaching cell phone etiquette, and about 15 years ago, business casual wardrobe policies were unheard of. <strong><em>Making others feel comfortable never has been been &ndash; or will be -- out of style.</em></strong></span></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">&nbsp;</div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'">I always loved the quote that goes something like this, &ldquo;Those who know, know, and those who don&rsquo;t know, don&rsquo;t even know they don&rsquo;t know.&rdquo; Since impressions are made in a blink of an eye, it&rsquo;s good to know the &ldquo;rules&rdquo; and to pay attention to how we treat others.</span></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">&nbsp;</div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><strong><em><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'">Minding your manners isn&rsquo;t just some old fashioned advice that you get from your grandparents &hellip; it&rsquo;s something to take into account daily in work and life. </span></em></strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'">Manners &ndash; though constantly evolving -- really <em>do</em> matter!</span></div><br /></font></span></div>]]></description>
<date>4/20/2010</date>
<time>2:23:00 PM</time>
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<title><![CDATA[Intention & Focus Critical, But Then Take Action Too!]]></title>
<description><![CDATA[<div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">I am starting to prepare a presentation to be delivered this summer at a Foundation Event at the National Speakers Association Convention. </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">Topic: &ldquo;Getting Business in These Challenging Times.&rdquo; Of course, I have my ideas, but decided to tap the collective wisdom of colleagues and friends in the speaking industry.</span></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">&nbsp;</div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">One said, &ldquo;I think about money &ndash; really think about it, and I seem to get a booking for a presentation.&rdquo; He was dead serious. </span></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">&nbsp;</div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">At first, I laughed, then I began to think: focus, intention, putting what you want out into the universe, what you think about, you make happen.I&rsquo;m not laughing so much now. Instead, I am thinking about &hellip; <strong><em>I do believe that intention and focus are critical. It&rsquo;s part of a visualization process. Of course, taking action usually expedites things.</em></strong></span></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">&nbsp;</div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">What do<strong><em> you </em></strong>need to focus on? I&rsquo;d love to hear about the results. Maybe I will focus on you responding to me. I also would welcome ideas regarding getting business. The Foundation is a worthwhile cause, and the ideas could help a lot of people.</span></div>]]></description>
<date>4/16/2010</date>
<time>9:10:00 AM</time>
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<title><![CDATA[“Relentless Exploration” – How a Speaker's Message Can Resonate & Reach Audience Members]]></title>
<description><![CDATA[During a long flight, I was catching up on my reading, and came across an interesting article in Newsweek (March 29, 2010) by Jon Meacham. The article was about Bill Clinton’s comments regarding President Obama’s oratory, and what he needed to do to be better understood.<br /><br />The phrase that former President Clinton said that struck me was “relentless exploration.” He also said, “…if you explain something to me, even if I don’t entirely understand it, even if I don’t agree with you, you have nevertheless honored me.”<br /><br />As an executive coach in presentation skills and Hall of Fame professional speaker, this sentiment really resonated with me. If people don’t understand what a speaker says, how do they make good decisions? What gets in the way of understanding?<br /><br />• Acronyms, jargon and buzz words<br />• Bombastic vocabulary<br />• Long sentences<br />• Mounds of data and statistics that go in circles and aren’t interpreted properly, or in the right context<br />• Eloquence without substance<br /><br />Meacham’s (now adopted by me!) four rules to get your point across – and maybe even buy in for your ideas are:<br /><br />1. “Explain relentlessly.”<br />2. Create a vision – “tell us how what you are saying will lead us to a better place, and describe the place.”<br />3. “Assume nothing;<br />4. Repeat yourself until you are numb.”<br /><br />Only after you do all of these techniques, he said, the message may begin to sink in.<br /><br />Meacham also reinforces the “15- to 20-word test” when answering questions. If you can’t answer questions in 15 to 20 words, you aren’t going to get through to your audience members.<br /><br />These presentation skills rules of thumb aren’t just relevant to presidents. We can all apply them in any presentation that we deliver – to better connect with our audiences and achieve “buy in” and action for our messages.<br />]]></description>
<date>4/6/2010</date>
<time>9:43:00 AM</time>
<link>http://www.brodypro.com/blog//?view=plink&amp;id=150</link>
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<title><![CDATA[Fixing the “Freeze” -- Effective Strategies for Making Sales Cold Calls ]]></title>
<description><![CDATA[<div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="COLOR: black">At BRODY Professional Development, we work with salespeople all the time &ndash; helping them improve their ability to effectively present and listen, and to ask questions to further engage and connect with their audiences. </span><span style="COLOR: black">We don&rsquo;t help people with cold calling &ndash; perhaps it&rsquo;s my own making-the-call-related reluctance. The good news is that I have found the &ldquo;cure.&rdquo;</span></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="COLOR: black"></span></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="COLOR: black">It&rsquo;s a book by Art Sobczak called <em>Smart Calling: Eliminate the Fear, Failure and Rejection from Cold Calling.</em></span></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="COLOR: black"></span></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="COLOR: black">You will find out how to get the prospect&rsquo;s interest in 20 seconds, turn around buyer resistance, get the gatekeeper on your side, and, perhaps most important of all -- stay motivated. Wow! </span><span style="COLOR: black">I&rsquo;m buying this for everyone on my staff &ndash; and so should you! </span>The book is less than $15 at Amazon.</div><br /><br /><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"></div>]]></description>
<date>3/31/2010</date>
<time>2:48:00 PM</time>
<link>http://www.brodypro.com/blog//?view=plink&amp;id=149</link>
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<title><![CDATA[Mastermind Groups: Invaluable Colleagues as Consultants & Much More]]></title>
<description><![CDATA[<div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt; COLOR: black">If two heads are better than one, as the old adage says, what will four to five heads create? </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt; COLOR: black">Synergy, ideas, creativity.</span></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">&nbsp;</div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt; COLOR: black">That&rsquo;s what happens each time I meet with one of my two mastermind groups. I come with problems, and walk away with a myriad of possible solutions. &nbsp;Ultimately, I am accountable for the results, but I find that I (and most mere mortals), can get lost in the details or only have &ldquo;silo&rdquo; thinking.</span></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">&nbsp;</div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt; COLOR: black">What I also love about my groups is that they help me to think differently &ndash; to be creative and sometimes more honest with myself. My family, friends, and employees are too &ldquo;close&rdquo; to some of the issues to be able to help me see things clearly. My mastermind buddies have a different perspective, and know that even if it is something I don&rsquo;t want to hear, or face, it is critical that I do so.</span></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">&nbsp;</div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt; COLOR: black">I am lucky to have these people in my life. </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt; COLOR: black">Have you ever thought about creating your own mastermind group? </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt; COLOR: black">If you want more details and ideas on how to do so, drop me an e-mail, and I will answer your questions.</span></div>]]></description>
<date>3/26/2010</date>
<time>2:14:00 PM</time>
<link>http://www.brodypro.com/blog//?view=plink&amp;id=148</link>
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<title><![CDATA[A Look At Leadership: Interpersonal Communication Still Key]]></title>
<description><![CDATA[<div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt; COLOR: black">If you Google the phrase &ldquo;leadership, definition&rdquo;, you will see more than 81,500 entries. Obviously, there isn&rsquo;t one universally accepted definition for leadership, and clearly, there isn&rsquo;t one right way to lead. So, is investing in leadership development still important in our age of cutbacks and shrinking budgets? Yes. </span></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">&nbsp;</div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt; COLOR: black">Paula Ketter, editor of <em>T+D </em>magazine, reminded readers of her March 2010 column that&nbsp;&ldquo;experts agree enlightened leadership begets engaged employees.&rdquo; She suggests we do it right and look at what&rsquo;s missing to help corporations:</span></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt; COLOR: black"><br /><br />Ketter stated, also in her March 2010 column, <strong><em>&ldquo;Leadership development should be created around an organization&rsquo;s culture and should mirror the values and the goals of that culture.&rdquo;</em></strong></span></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">&nbsp;</div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt; COLOR: black">She also said, <strong><em>&ldquo;High potentials tend to have the business and technical skills needed to create successful organizational strategy, but many are lacking the interpersonal skills to motivate employees and communicate effectively.&rdquo;</em></strong></span></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">&nbsp;</div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt; COLOR: black">What so often is described as &ldquo;soft skills&rdquo; are the very things that are critical for moving an organization and driving hard results. W</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt; COLOR: black">hat are you doing for yourself and for your employees to enhance your interpersonal and communication skills?</span></div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">&nbsp;</div><br /><div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt; COLOR: black">There are many free tips and techniques on our website <a href="http://www.brodypro.com/">www.brodypro.com</a> that will help you communicate with clarity and conviction. Give us a call today and we can craft a communication solution for you and your team.</span></div>]]></description>
<date>3/16/2010</date>
<time>10:29:00 AM</time>
<link>http://www.brodypro.com/blog//?view=plink&amp;id=147</link>
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<title><![CDATA[An “Achievers Circle” Weekend Can Build Your Business]]></title>
<description><![CDATA[<div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">Are you looking for ways to build your business? </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">I have a solution &ndash; join my mastermind group colleague Mark LeBlanc at one of his <span style="COLOR: black"><a href="http://www.AchieversCircle.com">Achievers Circle</a></span> </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">weekends. </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt; COLOR: black">He will help you grow your business and put more money in your pocket.</span></div>]]></description>
<date>3/15/2010</date>
<time>2:38:00 PM</time>
<link>http://www.brodypro.com/blog//?view=plink&amp;id=146</link>
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<title><![CDATA[March 8 – Bill Lee’s Book Can Help You Manage Well]]></title>
<description><![CDATA[<div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">Doing your job well, whether it is sales or being on the plant floor, doesn&rsquo;t translate into being a good manager. </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">Managing others is a different skill set &ndash; one fraught with roadblocks and potholes. </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">The book <strong><em><span style="COLOR: black">30 Ways Managers Shoot Themselves in the Foot </span></em></strong><span style="COLOR: black">by my mastermind colleague Bill Lee, is a great read &ndash; for first time and veteran managers. </span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt; COLOR: black">Bill&rsquo;s book is filled with actionable ideas. Once you&rsquo;ve read it, let me know what you think. <span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;"><strong><span style="COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'"><a href="http://bit.ly/aLNa7j">Click here&nbsp;for&nbsp;a summary of the 30 chapters.</a></span></strong></span></span></div>]]></description>
<date>3/8/2010</date>
<time>11:57:00 AM</time>
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<title><![CDATA[March 8 - A Journey Worth Taking, to Revolutionize Your Life & Career]]></title>
<description><![CDATA[<div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">If for any reason you are feeling depressed, unmotivated, or unfulfilled, I have the &ldquo;cure&rdquo; &ndash; no, it&rsquo;s not a drug. It&rsquo;s not even eating chocolate. It&rsquo;s attending a &ldquo;Journey&rdquo; with my mastermind group friend Dr. Alan Zimmerman. He is an expert on motivation, attitude and performance. </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">Click here to get more information on his <strong><a href="http://tinyurl.com/yz3g39b">12 keys to success that will revolutionize your life and your career</a>. </strong></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">You won&rsquo;t be disappointed.</span></div>]]></description>
<date>3/8/2010</date>
<time>11:52:00 AM</time>
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<title><![CDATA[March 4 – Training’s Not Dead Yet; It’s Still a Valuable Investment]]></title>
<description><![CDATA[<div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">Has training died? This past week, I got an e-mail that Nielsen Company decided to cease operations of <em>Training</em> magazine and <em>Training</em> magazine Events, responsible for producing the annual Training Leadership Summit, Training Conference &amp; Expo, and other meetings. Aside from ASTD, these were some of the biggest training gatherings in the United States, maybe even the world. How sad is this? </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">In a word: Very. What does this mean?</span>&nbsp;<br /><br /></div><br /><ul style="MARGIN-TOP: 0in" type="square"><br />    <li style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">No one needs training?</span></li><br />    <li style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">No one values training?</span></li><br />    <li style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">No one wants to invest time or dollars in training?</span></li><br /></ul><br /><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt"></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">How short-sighted is this mindset? Again, in a word: Very. <em><strong>No matter how enamored we may be with tweeting, texting and blogging, none of it ever replaces skills practice, interaction with people and feedback. </strong></em>Fear seems to be the operative word -- fear of being fired, fear of spending money, fear of investing in our employees, so people are stuck. W</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">e can all learn a lot from the attitude and example that Olympians set during the recent Winter Games &ndash; which was the very opposite mentality: <em><strong>Push yourself, take a risk, go a little out of control, and recognize the need in some cases for yet more training and coaching. </strong></em></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt">How else can we get the best from people? Clearly, I have a vested interest in the world of training. But, so should you!</span></p>]]></description>
<date>3/4/2010</date>
<time>11:01:00 AM</time>
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<title><![CDATA[Feb 22 – Olympic Athletes & Presenters: What It Takes for Platform Success]]></title>
<description><![CDATA[<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"><img height="400" alt="Marjorie Brody skiing in Stowe, VT" width="300" src="http://www.brodypro.com/MBskiing.jpg" /></span></p><br /><br /><br /><div>Have you been watching the Olympics? I&rsquo;m skiing in Stowe, Vermont, this week, and have been glued to the TV every night. I&rsquo;ve been watching the events (not just skiing), and listening to the &ldquo;back stories&rdquo; of the athletes. <strong><em>It&rsquo;s amazing what these Olympic athletes have done to earn a place on the team, and sometimes the medals podium.</em></strong></div><br /><div>Key words that come to my mind are:&nbsp;</div><br /><ul type="square"><br />    <li>Dedication<br /><br />    </li><br />    <li>Focus<br /><br />    </li><br />    <li>Passion<br /><br />    </li><br />    <li>Practice</li><br /></ul><br /><div>Granted, these athletes have talent &ndash; but, so do lots of other people in their respective sports. Is this so different from winners and others who excel from any other areas of life? For example, a musician, an actor, a singer, a dancer, a <em>business professional</em>? All of these professions also require dedication, focus, passion and practice &ndash; if those in these fields are going to make it and succeed. Why then do businesspeople assume that they can &ldquo;wing&rdquo; a presentation? <strong><em>Knowing the subject isn&rsquo;t the same as speaking about it. </em></strong>Giving a winning presentation requires much more. Standing on the podium means many things. There&rsquo;s a lot that speakers can learn from Olympic athletes.</div>]]></description>
<date>2/22/2010</date>
<time>12:12:00 PM</time>
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<title><![CDATA[February 15 – A Presentation Is Not Over ‘Til You Ace the Q & A]]></title>
<description><![CDATA[<p>Have you noticed how many good presentations fall flat during the Q &amp; A? It&rsquo;s one thing to craft and deliver an effective presentation, but what comes next is often more critical. The question-and-answer session gives audience members (whether one or many) a chance to get their questions answered and to exchange ideas. Here are four main guidelines to consider: </p><br /><ul><br />    <li>Anticipate what the worst (and best) questions could be. Be prepared just in case for both!</li><br />    <li>Practice a Q &amp; A session with friends, family or colleagues. Keep your answers short. Long answers can get a speaker in trouble, not to mention bore audience members.</li><br />    <li>If it&rsquo;s a team presentation, work as a team. Make sure you are on the same page. Take turns answering various questions.</li><br />    <li>If you don&rsquo;t know the answer, write the question down, and tell the person you&rsquo;ll get back with a response &ndash; and then do so! No need to apologize or get defensive. </li><br /></ul><br /><p>When the questions have stopped, or time is up, it&rsquo;s time to conclude. Don&rsquo;t make the mistake of giving a simple &ldquo;thank you&rdquo; and walking away. Revert to your closing statement, or talk about next steps. Your closing should not be lengthy, but it should wrap things up neatly, and end on a positive note. </p>]]></description>
<date>2/15/2010</date>
<time>12:25:00 PM</time>
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<title><![CDATA[February 8, 2010 – Watch Your Words When Presenting]]></title>
<description><![CDATA[<p>Recently, White House Chief of Staff Rahm Emanuel used the word &quot;retarded&quot; during a closed-door strategy session. And, radio personality Rush Limbaugh used the term again in discussing Mr. Emanuel&rsquo;s statement.</p><br /><p>This has created enormous outrage in both the political and mental health circles. Mr. Emanuel apologized last week to a group of advocates for using the term. His comments were originally spotlighted after former Alaskan Governor Sarah Palin called for Emanuel to be fired in a Facebook post. Palin&rsquo;s son has Downs Syndrome.</p><br /><p>Although the intended messages from both men may not have been said in a derogatory manner against mentally challenged individuals, clearly the message was perceived that way.</p><br /><p>How important is your word choice in a conversation during a presentation &hellip; in a word, VERY!</p><br /><p>Choose your words carefully; they matter. You never know who may be listening, or how they interpret what you&rsquo;re saying. No matter what type of presentation you are giving, and no matter who the audience is, you always want to avoid slang and inappropriate language.</p><br /><p>In Mr. Emanuel&rsquo;s case, whether it was meant as a slur or not, it doesn&rsquo;t matter. The lesson may be learned, but his reputation was definitely tarnished.</p>]]></description>
<date>2/9/2010</date>
<time>3:54:00 PM</time>
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<title><![CDATA[When it Comes to the Image You Present, You’re Always on “Candid Camera”]]></title>
<description><![CDATA[<span style="FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;"><font size="3"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><br /><br /><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">Smile. You&rsquo;re on candid camera.</span><br /><br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">Today, deep in thought while waiting for the bagel I ordered to be toasted, I heard the cashier say, &ldquo;Smile. It will make your day go better.&rdquo;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><o:p></o:p></span></p><br /><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">Once I realized that she was talking to me, I turned to look at her. She said, &ldquo;I don&rsquo;t know what you were thinking about, but it didn&rsquo;t look good.&rdquo;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><o:p></o:p></span></p><br /><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><o:p></o:p></span></p><br /><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">Wow!</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><o:p></o:p></span></p><br /><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><o:p>W</o:p></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">hat feedback.</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><o:p></o:p></span></p><br /><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">So often, when we know we are being observed, we pay attention to the nonverbal signals we send out &ndash; especially during critical presentations we deliver. But, the reality is that we are always presenting ourselves &ndash; even at the bagel shop!</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><o:p></o:p></span></p><br /><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><o:p></o:p></span></p><br /><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">What is the image you want to create?</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><o:p></o:p></span></p><br /><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><o:p></o:p></span></p><br /><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">How do you present yourself every day in every situation?</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><o:p></o:p></span></p><br /><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><o:p></o:p></span></p><br /><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"></span></p><br /><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">Smile. You are on candid camera.</span>&nbsp;</p><br /><br /><br /><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">&nbsp;</p><br /><br /><br /></span></font></span>]]></description>
<date>2/5/2010</date>
<time>2:46:00 PM</time>
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<title><![CDATA[The Power of a Vacation: Get Recharged & Ready to Forge On ]]></title>
<description><![CDATA[<p>This week, I am on vacation &ndash; at a spa in Mexico.</p><p>I tell you that because I am a real believer in taking R &amp; R. </p><p>It&rsquo;s hard with fewer staff, doing more with less, and feeling the stress of the economy.</p><p>But, the reality is our bodies and minds can burn out. </p><p>With some time off, we can develop perspective, and insights that can ultimately be helpful at work and at home.</p><p>Treat yourself well &ndash; you only have one life.</p><p>Hasta la vista! </p><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br />]]></description>
<date>1/25/2010</date>
<time>12:05:00 PM</time>
<link>http://www.brodypro.com/blog//?view=plink&amp;id=138</link>
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<title><![CDATA[Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Day – A Reminder How Effective Presentations Motivate People]]></title>
<description><![CDATA[Today is Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. day. On the news this morning, I once again heard part of his well-known &ldquo;I Have A Dream&rdquo; speech.<br /><br /><p>The eloquence, the poignancy, the cadence, and rhythm are still astounding to me this day.</p><P>He was a true motivator.</p><p>You may listen, and think, &ldquo;That type of presentation won&rsquo;t work in my environment.&rdquo;</p><br /><p>I challenge this mentality, and suggest all presenters need to ask, &ldquo;Are there elements that I<em style=""> could</em> use?&rdquo;</p><p>Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. used alliteration. In one sentence, he said, &ldquo;Character, confidence and courage.&rdquo; Isn&rsquo;t this something that you, too, could say when speaking about leadership?</p><br /><p><em><strong>Ask yourself this question: &ldquo;What else could I be saying to others, to be more inspiring on a daily basis?&rdquo;</strong></em></p><br /><p>I find that by studying the great orators &ndash; be it classic (Aristotle) or modern (Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.), there are many lessons to be learned.</p><br /><p>Perhaps on some level, we can all raise the bar.</p>]]></description>
<date>1/18/2010</date>
<time>3:33:00 PM</time>
<link>http://www.brodypro.com/blog//?view=plink&amp;id=137</link>
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<title><![CDATA[Being Easy to Work With: A Concept That Isn’t Hard to Execute]]></title>
<description><![CDATA[<p class="MsoNormal"><br /><p class="MsoNormal"><o:p></o:p></p><br />I&rsquo;ve been looking for ways over the past 6 months to economize &ndash; both in my business and personally. It&rsquo;s amazing what a recession does to jump cost-cutting efforts into high gear!</p><br /><p class="MsoNormal">Changing insurance vendors was high on my list. The experience these past few months has been amazing &ndash; and I don&rsquo;t mean in a good way.</p><br /><p class="MsoNormal">In order not to get sued for libel, I won&rsquo;t mention how poor the service was when I called to get information from car insurance companies. </p><br /><p class="MsoNormal">It would seem the concept of &ldquo;customer <em style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal">service</em>&rdquo; is not in their vocabulary. In fact, I opted not to work with certain companies due to the long time on hold I experienced, negative attitudes and difficulty of connecting at all.</p><br /><p class="MsoNormal">As a business owner, my experiences reinforced the importance of our own products and services (high end presentation and communication skills training/coaching) &ndash; and, also for the back end, from sales, customer service, accounts payable, etc.</p><br /><p class="MsoNormal">I get frequent compliment from our clients for my staff. I hope that they also would be willing to give negative feedback as well &ndash; how else can we improve if we are unaware?</p><br /><p class="MsoNormal">With that concept in mind, one company has been outstanding. It&rsquo;s Geico. </p><br /><p class="MsoNormal">My telephone sales representative has been Elizabeth Heflin. She was patient, knowledgeable, and on top of everything. </p><br /><p class="MsoNormal">I must have spoken to her at least six times over a period of a week, to get all the information I needed. Not only was I able to save almost $1,000 (fabulous by any standard), I actually felt taken care of as a customer.</p><br /><p class="MsoNormal">I also want to recognize Larry Oxenberg, my New York Life agent &ndash; for helping me countless times over the years. He actually looks for ways to save me money, and I appreciate that. He, too, deserves special recognition.</p><br /><p class="MsoNormal">Thank you, <st1:city w:st="on"><st1:place w:st="on">Elizabeth</st1:place></st1:city>. Thank you Geico. Thank you Larry. </p><br /><p class="MsoNormal"><strong>When working with an insurance company &ndash; or any company, for that matter -- can be a <em style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal">pleasurable</em> experience, it is well worth writing about!</strong></p><br /><p class="MsoNormal">I hope my clients continue to feel the same.<o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></p><br /><p class="MsoNormal"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></p><br /><p class="MsoNormal"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></strong></p>]]></description>
<date>1/12/2010</date>
<time>10:22:00 AM</time>
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<title><![CDATA[Be a HOST At Your Holiday Office Party ]]></title>
<description><![CDATA[<p>Last week, I wrote about some dos and don&rsquo;ts for attending  work-related holiday parties.</p><br /><p>It seems, from the personal responses I got, that attending  these parties can be quite a chore for some people.</p><br /><p>If that description sounds familiar, how can you make them  easier on yourself, as well as for the many others that are attending?</p><br /><p><strong>Play the role of  HOST.</strong> </p><br /><p>I know you aren&rsquo;t actually hosting the party, but think  about what the host&rsquo;s role entails &hellip;.</p><br /><p>It is to be gracious, meet and greet people, and make sure  others are having fun.</p><br /><p>Remember, it&rsquo;s NOT all about you!!</p><br /><p>Here are some pointers using the acronym HOST that can help  you make the most of holiday office parties:</p><br /><p>H -- Greet people by saying, &ldquo;<strong>H</strong>i&rdquo; (or &ldquo;<strong>H</strong>ello&rdquo;) my name is _________  and you are?&rdquo; It&rsquo;s best to approach small groups and individuals. Typically,  the person standing alone is an introvert, and would welcome being rescued.</p><br /><p>O &ndash; Have <strong>O</strong>pen body language &ndash; in other words, look  inviting. There&rsquo;s no need to cross your arms or stare at the floor. Look at  people, and look approachable.</p><br /><p>S &ndash; <strong>S</strong>mile. This really goes along with open  body language. A smile is welcoming. A smile is friendly. A smile is inviting.  People may actually be interested in you if you smile. And, while we are on the  S, think of small talk. That&rsquo;s the chit-chat that opens doors. Find out more  about people by being open yourself. Avoid talking business &ndash; remember, it&rsquo;s a  party!</p><br /><p>T &ndash; <strong>T</strong>alk to everyone. Don&rsquo;t monopolize one or  two people for the evening. Introduce the person (or people) you know to  someone else.</p><br /><p>The role of HOST isn&rsquo;t that hard &ndash; you may surprise yourself  in that you actually enjoy the party and have helped others to have a good  time, too!<a href="http://www.cixiz.biz" target="_blank" title="Twilight New moon, Tema vakfi, Bulutlarin yapisi, Diyet, kitap ozetleri">Cixiz.Biz</a> | <a href="http://www.healty.info" target="_blank" title="Healty News,Alternative Therapies,Healty Products,Wellness Inventory,Healty Kitchen,Healty Woman,Healty Man,Healty Child,Healty Aging,Wellness Center,Nutrition Center,Fitness Center,Global Health Calendar">Healty.Info</a></p>]]></description>
<date>12/15/2009</date>
<time>1:29:00 PM</time>
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<title><![CDATA[Office Party Etiquette: Remember Your Business Professionalism]]></title>
<description><![CDATA[<p>Holiday time is here, and  party invites are flowing.</p><p>Time for fun … and time for faux pas a plenty!</p><br /><p>Here is my list of <strong>9 holiday  party mistakes to avoid making …</strong></p><ol><li><strong>Not RSPVing when asked.</strong> Always respond  to invitations – whether or not you can attend the event. This includes citing  any guests who will be coming with you, too.</li><li><strong>Making wardrobe mistakes.</strong> Always plan  your wardrobe carefully, and ensure it’s appropriate attire for the event. For  women, this means remembering that a party isn’t the time to show off cleavage.  For men, the reminder is that no one needs to see your chest hair or 6-pack.  For both genders, remember to limit how much skin you show in general. </li><li><strong>Not knowing the exact location.</strong> Find  out the exact location of the party before you leave, so you arrive on time. No  last-minute scrambling to get directions or set up your GPS. “Fashionably late”  isn’t fashionable.</li><li><strong>Drinking too much alcohol.</strong> Limit your  alcohol intake. Alcohol consumption is not a license for poor behavior. I don’t  care if there IS an open bar, that’s not an excuse for drinking more than you  should.</li><li><strong>Talking business.</strong> Always keep  conversations to small talk and not major business-related topics. There’s a  time and place for everything.</li><li><strong>Sticking with one or two people the whole  time.</strong> Mix and mingle at all work and business parties. Don’t spend too much  time with any one person. Parties are for socializing and meeting new people.</li><li><strong>Pigging out at the buffet. </strong>Remember,  it’s NOT about the food. So, when you eat at these holiday affairs, avoid  overdoing it. And, watch your table manners!</li><li><strong>Overstaying your welcome.</strong> You certainly  don’t have to be the last person to leave. But worse yet, never put yourself in  a position where you’re asked to leave.</li><li><strong>Forgetting to send a thank-you note.</strong> Always send a thank-you note to the host or hosts. You will be remembered for  the right reasons.</li></ol><p>Now, the <strong>fun</strong> part  is up to you!</p><br />]]></description>
<date>12/8/2009</date>
<time>9:39:00 AM</time>
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<title><![CDATA[Seven Strategies for Conversation/Small Talk Success]]></title>
<description><![CDATA[<p>The Thanksgiving holiday is over &ndash; but now we have Chanukah, Christmas, Kwanzaa, and New Year&rsquo;s on the horizon.</p><br /><p>Typically, that means parties (professional and personal) &ndash; which, in turn, means more opportunities for creating conversations.</p><br /><p>For some of us, it is an easy task -- we like small talk, meeting new people and socializing in general. But, for others it is a chore. </p><br /><p>It doesn&rsquo;t have to be &hellip;</p><br /><br /><br /><p><strong><em>What are some techniques to make mingling and conversation easy and enjoyable for all parties concerned?</em></strong></p><br /><p>Here&rsquo;s my list of seven strategies:</p><br /><ol type="1"><br />    <li>Whenever possible, do your &ldquo;homework.&rdquo; Know who is coming, and a little bit about the people. What are their interests? Where do they work? What do they do in their free time?</li><br /></ol><br /><ol type="1" start="2"><br />    <li>Ask questions &ndash; not to be intrusive, but to find areas of mutual interest. Be interested in what they have to say.</li><br /></ol><br /><ol type="1" start="3"><br />    <li>Share something about yourself &ndash; not to brag, but again, something that the others may find interesting.</li><br /></ol><br /><ol type="1" start="4"><br />    <li>Be comfortable with silence. You don&rsquo;t need to rush the conversation.</li><br /></ol><br /><ol type="1" start="5"><br />    <li>Be up to date with current events and best-selling books &ndash; they make great conversation starters.</li><br /></ol><br /><ol type="1" start="6"><br />    <li>Look for ways to help others. That may mean introducing them to other people at the event.</li><br /></ol><br /><ol type="1" start="7"><br /><br />    <li>Know when to exit the conversation. Avoid monopolizing one person for the whole event.</li><br /></ol><br /><p>If you follow these seven guidelines, you not only will have great conversations and build relationships, but, perhaps more importantly, a great time!</p>]]></description>
<date>12/1/2009</date>
<time>1:59:00 PM</time>
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<title><![CDATA[Presentation Skills Primer: Slide Decks Support a Message, Not the Other Way Around]]></title>
<description><![CDATA[<p>We can “Deck the Halls,” “Swab the deck,” and even “Deck  someone” …. (though I wouldn’t endorse trying the last one!).</p><br /><p>Obviously, the word “deck” can mean a lot of things.</p><br /><p>But, nowhere does a deck equate to a presentation! When I coach executives for presentation skills, typically they say, “The deck  is being prepared.” I then ask, “What about the presentation?”</p><p>From my perspective as an executive speech coach and  professional speaker for more years than I like to admit, <strong><em>an effective  presentation needs to be crafted first BEFORE slides are created.</em></strong></p><p>Then, and only then, <strong><em>if the visuals will support the  message,</em></strong> should a slide “deck” be crafted, too.</p><p>Preparing slides has become so easy that it’s now  commonplace for presenters to simply read their slides – which is never a  formula for speaking success.</p><p>Show me one example of a presentation where the audience  wanted more slides.</p><p><strong><em>The speaker needs to be the most important visual  element. </em></strong></p><p>How? </p><p>Through effective use of eye contact, facial expression,  gestures and movements to captivate an audience -- plus having a good,  descriptive story to tell. Then, you can add a visual to help paint a picture  or make a point.So, in the future, prepare your presentation -- then get all <em>decked</em> out!</p>]]></description>
<date>11/20/2009</date>
<time>11:25:00 AM</time>
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<title><![CDATA[It Doesn’t Matter What You’re “Selling” … Prep Before You Present Your Pitch]]></title>
<description><![CDATA[<p><span>Professor Dan Brody (yes, he is a relative!) is teaching an entrepreneurial course at the University of Virginia&rsquo;s <st1:place w:st="on">School of Engineering<.</span></p><p><span>He had a few entrepreneurs speak as guest lecturers, and he asked me to do the same. My topic was &ldquo;10 Reasons Presentations Fail &amp; How to Avoid Them.&rdquo;</span></p><p><strong><em><span>You might wonder &ndash; why is information regarding presentation skills critical in a class of would be engineering entrepreneurs? </span></em></strong><span></span></p><br /><p><span>In fact, in my first career, as a college professor of presentation skills and interpersonal communication skills, students often told me, &ldquo;I don&rsquo;t need to speak &ndash; I am going to be an engineer, accountant, researcher, architect &hellip;&rdquo; &ndash; you name it, they said it.</span></p><p><span>Surprise!</span></p><p><em><strong><span>These students entered the job market, and soon realized that no matter how good their ideas were, they needed to be able to sell themselves along with these bright ideas.</span></strong></em><span></span></p><br /><p><span>This recent group of talented students at UVA are giving group presentations as part of a contest. The winner will get some seed money to actually start building the business that they propose.</span></p><p><span>In case you are wondering what my top 10 list is, <a href="http://www.brodypro.com/v2/presentation_matters.html">go to my website </font></a>to read more about &ldquo;Why Every Professional Needs to Master Presentation Skills&rdquo; &mdash; to learn why presentations fail and more, and also take the free quiz there to test your presentation skills knowledge.</span></p><p><strong><span>On the surface, when it comes to presentation skills, things seem to be very basic. However, it is the little things that make the biggest difference.</span></strong><span></span></p><p><span>Here&rsquo;s a recent example that proves how true this is &hellip;</span></p><p><span>I was flying home last week from Tampa. My seat partner was the ex-superintendant of the Philadelphia School District</span>. She has since spent time teaching and leading at Harvard and now at the University of Pennsylvania: She is on the board of the Philadelphia Art Museum. She told me about the wonderful presentation delivered by the architects who won the Barnes Museum contract.</span></p><br /><p><span>What made this presentation so good?</span></p>]]></description>
<date>11/11/2009</date>
<time>3:41:00 PM</time>
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<title><![CDATA[Don’t Let the Digital World Divide: Face-to-Face Communication Still Critical]]></title>
<description><![CDATA[<p>I just got back from a meeting in Tampa. Following the meeting, a group of us  went to the hotel bar to continue the conversation. </p><br /><p>Guess what happened instead?</p><p>Everyone sat “playing with” their iPhones and BlackBerrys!  What little conversation there was revolved around the latest apps.   <br />    <strong><em>Somehow,  with the need to communicate quicker, and more easily, we seem to have lost the  art of the conversation.</em></strong></p><br /><p>You know … actually <em>talking</em> to people.</p><p>When I think of the time it takes to post a tweet on Twitter,  send an e-mail, or to update a Facebook page, I also think about how many  people we could have actually <em>spoken </em>to,  if we just picked up the phone. <br />  What’s happening in our workplace when colleagues who work next to each other  end up texting instead of getting up to chat face to face?</p><p>What does that say about interpersonal communications? Is  this <em>really</em> a way to build a  relationship? Believe me, I am a proponent of using the latest social networks -- check me  out on LinkedIn, Twitter, Facebook and Naymz – but NEVER in lieu of meeting  people for coffee, or phoning someone and having a real conversation.<strong><em>Business  particularly is all about the connections you make – and these are much more  effective when done face to face.</em></strong></p><p>Reading  words on a screen, even with a video and/or audio element added, is and never  will be the same as having a real dialogue in person. </p><p>Many times there are subtle nuances to communication and  body language that “speak” far greater than actual words. How does this  non-spoken “conversation” get conveyed online?</p><p>In the search to expand our networks, I truly believe that  something is being lost. </p><p>I would love to hear your thoughts on this.</p><br />]]></description>
<date>11/3/2009</date>
<time>3:18:00 PM</time>
<link>http://www.brodypro.com/blog//?view=plink&amp;id=129</link>
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<title><![CDATA[Modern-Day Networking: “Dripping” Can Solidify Relationships]]></title>
<description><![CDATA[<p>Are you dripping? Think of “dripping” as a way to keep in touch with clients and  colleagues – a little bit at a time, repeatedly.</p><p>In the course of a day, many of us might meet one or several  people who we want to build a relationship with – one that is mutually  beneficial, win/win, and helping others.</p><p>Yet, just a meeting, whether chance or purposefully  planned, isn’t enough.</p><p>That’s where the dripping starts.</p><br /><p><strong>Immediately after  meeting someone that you want to foster a relationship with, send something to  the person – an e-mail, a text, a Tweet, a note, an article.</strong></p><p>Then, touch base again with a call or even offer to do  lunch. Look for ways to help the other person. Find commonality.</p><p>As the relationship starts to build, you continue to “drip.”  Your contact might be once a month, or once every other month.</p><br /><p><strong><em>“Absence makes the heart grow fonder” is a fallacy! When it comes to  business networking and building relationships, it’s more like, “Out of sight,  out of mind.”</em></strong></p><p>Dripping keeps you in the mind’s eye of the other person,  since you touch base on a frequent basis.</p><p><strong>Building  relationships is more important, and easier to do, than ever before. </strong></p><br /><p>So, just keep on dripping!</p><object width="425" height="344"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/D1AUaGm6K8M&hl=en&fs=1&rel=0"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/D1AUaGm6K8M&hl=en&fs=1&rel=0" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="425" height="344"></embed></object>]]></description>
<date>10/28/2009</date>
<time>11:00:00 AM</time>
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<title><![CDATA[Death By PowerPoint: Don’t Become Another Speaking Statistic]]></title>
<description><![CDATA[<p>We&rsquo;ve all heard the expression &ldquo;death by PowerPoint.&rdquo; </p><p>People acknowledge it, laugh about it, and hate it when in an audience, but, yet &hellip;. Many continue to be guilty of doing it themselves!</p><p>How can presenters avoid this?</p><p>1)Write your presentation first, then look to see where you can add PowerPoint to reinforce the message. Keep in mind, a slide deck isn&rsquo;t a presentation.</p><p>2)Add graphics, rather than bullet points, wherever possible. When words are necessary, it&rsquo;s OK to use them, but avoid paragraphs.</p><p>3)Limit the content on the slides. If your audience needs the slides in advance, or as a take-home learning tool, then give them a file with more detail -- but for the actual presentation, pare down the content.</p><p>4)Avoid too many &ldquo;bells and whistles&rdquo; (like different font colors/sizes, charts, etc.) The focus needs to on the information, not the slide.</p><p>5)Get comfortable with the &ldquo;B&rdquo; key. While in PowerPoint mode, hit the &ldquo;B&rdquo; key on your computer. The screen will turn black or go blank. I like to think that the B stands for BRODY. Occasionally, go blank, so you change up what you&rsquo;re doing &ndash; move around more and facilitate discussion.</p><p>6)Create a list of all slides &ndash; have one sheet of paper with the slide number and title of each slide. This allows you to cut slides if time is an issue, or to jump back and forth on the slide deck. Do this by hitting the &ldquo;slide number&rdquo; then hit &ldquo;enter.&rdquo; So, assume you are on slide 10, and you want to go back to slide 3. Hit &ldquo;3&rsquo; and then &ldquo;enter.&rdquo;</p><p>7)Practice using the slides so that you are comfortable with timing and flow. </p><br /><p>8)Arrive early and position yourself so that the screen is to your (speaker&rsquo;s) left. People read from left to right. Make it easy for the audience.</p><p>9)Open and close with a blank screen to create and keep rapport with the audience.</p><p>10)Keep in mind &ndash; less is more. Trust me ... rarely, if ever, have audience members said, &ldquo;Oh good, another slide.&rdquo;</p><p>Always remember, be prepared to speak without any slides all in case of a technical glitch. </p><p>The best speakers can deliver their messages with power, impact and persuasion, without any slides at all.</p><object width="425" height="344"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/mdx67zyRXng&hl=en&fs=1&rel=0"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/mdx67zyRXng&hl=en&fs=1&rel=0" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="425" height="344"></embed></object><br />]]></description>
<date>10/22/2009</date>
<time>2:35:00 PM</time>
<link>http://www.brodypro.com/blog//?view=plink&amp;id=127</link>
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<title><![CDATA[The Selling Stool: 3 Key Elements to Sales Presentations]]></title>
<description><![CDATA[<p>Product knowledge and selling skills are only two legs of the stool when it comes to successful sales presentations.</p><p>The third key is the ability to communicate your ideas effectively, and at the same time read the messages that your audience (buyer) is sending in response.</p><p>In other words, you need to master the art of walking and chewing gum at the same time!</p><p>The most effective salespeople pay attention to the signals that are being sent &ndash; theirs and others.</p><p>These winning sales professionals don&rsquo;t go onto autopilot with their prepared pitch.</p><p>So, what are some things to watch for?</p><p>Here are some positive cues from the person or people to whom you are presenting:</p><ul><li>Direct eye contact</li><li>Open body language</li><li>Forward lean</li><li>Upward turn on the corners of their mouth</li></ul><p>Here are some negative signals to watch carefully for:</p><ul><li>Tension in the eyebrows</li><li>Closed off posture</li><li>Limited eye contact</li><li>Pursed lips</li></ul><p>You can&rsquo;t assume that people are hostile to your ideas just because</p><p>However, if their arms are crossed, look for other signals as well that might indicate hostility, disagreement or closed thinking.</p><p>Typically, in a selling situation, the &ldquo;buyer&rdquo; says so much without even saying a word.</p><p>The question is, are you so busy talking, that you aren&rsquo;t listening to what is -- and isn&rsquo;t -- being said?</p><p>It may seem trite, but there is a reason we have <strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><em style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal">two</em></strong> ears!</p>]]></description>
<date>10/16/2009</date>
<time>8:59:00 AM</time>
<link>http://www.brodypro.com/blog//?view=plink&amp;id=126</link>
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<title><![CDATA[Bottom-Line Speaking for Presentation Skills Success]]></title>
<description><![CDATA[<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">Give people conclusions they can walk out the door with, not a lot of details.<o:p></o:p></p><br /><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><o:p></o:p></p><br /><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">This is what Jack Welch used to say, when he headed up General Electric.</p><br /><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><o:p></o:p></p><br /><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">This is also what I say when I coach people about presentation skills.</p><br /><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><o:p></o:p></p><br /><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">You can&rsquo;t be too specific when sharing information.</p><br /><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">&nbsp;</p><br /><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">Most decision makers don&rsquo;t have a lot of time to wade through data. They are paying others to get the data, and just want to be told your recommendation or their call to action.</p><br /><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><o:p></o:p></p><br /><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">Often, the tendency when speaking is to get bogged down in the technicalities, which most people don&rsquo;t understand (or even care about!). </p><br /><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><o:p><strong><em>&nbsp;</em></strong></o:p><strong><em>You will be perceived as a leader if you keep a presentation at the 100,000-foot level &ndash; then be able to answer questions that go beneath that.</em></strong></p><br /><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><o:p></o:p></p><br /><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">Answer these three questions:</p><br /><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><o:p></o:p></p><br /><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">What?</p><br /><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">So what?</p><br /><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">Now what?</p><br /><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><o:p></o:p></p><br /><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">Truly effective speakers always keep their focus on the last two.</p><br /><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/RtEv_QyDFr4&amp;hl=en&amp;fs=1&amp;" width="425" height="344" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true"></embed>]]></description>
<date>10/6/2009</date>
<time>8:48:00 AM</time>
<link>http://www.brodypro.com/blog//?view=plink&amp;id=125</link>
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<title><![CDATA[E-mail: A Critical Communication Tool if Used Correctly]]></title>
<description><![CDATA[<p class="MsoNormal">Over the weekend, I had some repairs that had to be done at home. I pulled out the trusty toolbox, and as I moved from project to project, I had to think about which tool would be most effective.</p><br /><p class="MsoNormal">Midway through my project, I had an epiphany: <strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><em style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal">How similar is what I&rsquo;m doing at home to what happens at work &ndash; picking the right tool for the right activity?<o:p></o:p></em></strong></p><br /><p class="MsoNormal">Let&rsquo;s say I have feedback to give a colleague or direct report. Should I see him or her, if possible; or is it OK to e-mail the person? If I have data to report, should I call the person, put it in writing, or send a quick e-mail?</p><br /><p class="MsoNormal">If I want to thank someone for something he or she did to help me -- a much more personal type of communication &ndash; do I send a handwritten note or an e-mail?</p><br /><p class="MsoNormal"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><em style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal">Just because we have incredible communication tools &ndash; like e-mail &ndash; doesn&rsquo;t mean we always should use them &hellip; or possibly abuse them.<o:p></o:p></em></strong></p><br /><p class="MsoNormal">E-mail shouldn&rsquo;t be used for sending long messages, discussing confidential information, or distributing negative news, or sending complicated policy changes.</p><br /><p class="MsoNormal">E-mail also shouldn&rsquo;t be used in lieu of having face-to-face time.</p><br /><p class="MsoNormal">Even if you do choose the right tool, you need to use it properly. Over the weekend, my husband was slicing potatoes using a mandolin -- a great kitchen tool.</p><br /><p class="MsoNormal">Unfortunately, he didn&rsquo;t anchor it properly, and ended up slicing his finger. Not good for a dentist!</p><br /><p class="MsoNormal">The same is true with e-mail.<em> It is so easy to use, that we frequently throw caution to the wind when using it.</em></p><br /><p class="MsoNormal">Be sure to pay attention to both the tone and accuracy of all e-mail messages. You don&rsquo;t want to appear to be abrupt or sloppy.</p><br /><p class="MsoNormal">The cost of e-mail mistakes, abuse, and misuse, can be great.</p><br /><p class="MsoNormal"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><em style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">So, just think of e-mail as one tool in your communication toolbox, and use it carefully and selectively.</span></em></strong></p>]]></description>
<date>9/29/2009</date>
<time>12:37:00 PM</time>
<link>http://www.brodypro.com/blog//?view=plink&amp;id=124</link>
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<title><![CDATA[Listening is More Than Hearing]]></title>
<description><![CDATA[<span style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial">So many people like to talk.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<o:p></o:p></span><br /><br /><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><o:p></o:p></span></p><br /><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial">I&nbsp;sure do.<o:p></o:p></span></p><br /><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial">In fact, I do it all the time.&nbsp;<o:p></o:p></span></p><br /><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><o:p></o:p></span></p><br /><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial">On the other hand&nbsp;so few like to actually listen -- I&nbsp;will admit I am occasionally&nbsp;challenged to really listen&nbsp;or listen well.&nbsp; <o:p></o:p></span></p><br /><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><o:p></o:p></span></p><br /><p class="MsoNormal"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><em style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial">Statistically speaking, we spend more time listening in a day than speaking, yet we don&rsquo;t often do it well (just ask your family</span></em></strong><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial">!). Usually, it&rsquo;s not on anyone&rsquo;s top to-do list for training.<o:p></o:p></span></p><br /><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><o:p></o:p></span></p><br /><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial">But, that may be changing.&nbsp;In the last few months we have seen a steady increase in clients asking for&nbsp;listening skills training.<o:p></o:p></span></p><br /><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><o:p></o:p></span></p><br /><p class="MsoNormal"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial">Perhaps there&nbsp;were&nbsp;relationships, opportunities, and revenues&nbsp;that were lost as the&nbsp;result of poor listening.&nbsp;Maybe at the root of our relationship problems this&nbsp;fundamental communication skill is missing.<o:p></o:p></span></strong></p><br /><p class="MsoNormal"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><o:p></o:p></span></strong></p><br /><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial">Last week, I&nbsp;got to deliver&nbsp;a listening workshop &ndash; the first I personally&nbsp;had delivered in years.<o:p></o:p></span></p><br /><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial">The focus of the program&nbsp;was a combination of activities, skills and exercises to practice &ndash; along with an online assessment, which profiles the individual participant&rsquo;s preferred (or natural) listening style.&nbsp;&nbsp;The district and regional sales managers in my session&nbsp;had so many &ldquo;aha&rdquo; moments that they couldn&rsquo;t wait to&nbsp;get back and&nbsp;adjust their style&nbsp;at work &ndash; as well as at home.<o:p></o:p></span></p><br /><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><o:p></o:p></span></p><br /><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial">Since I also took the assessment, I, too, had some major insights. For example, at work I tend to listen purposefully &ndash; in a very task-oriented way &ndash; and pay less attention to the empathy factor&nbsp;and fail to&nbsp;listen for enjoyment.<o:p></o:p></span></p><br /><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><o:p></o:p></span></p><br /><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial">It does make sense, however, that my staff needs as much empathy and appreciation as I&nbsp;give&nbsp;my clients and friends.&nbsp;I am committed to improving my listening with my team.&nbsp;You can e-mail them and see if they have noticed a difference!<o:p></o:p></span></p><br /><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><o:p></o:p></span></p><br /><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial">So do I think&nbsp;effective listening be taught? <o:p></o:p></span></p><br /><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><o:p></o:p></span></p><br /><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial">Yes I do!<o:p></o:p></span></p><br /><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><o:p></o:p></span></p><br /><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial">It isn&rsquo;t&nbsp;complicated, but it does require&nbsp;a commitment to use more than just our ears.</span></p><br /><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><a href="http://brodypro.com/v2/aol.html"><strong>If you want to see what is in our listening skills program, click here for more details.</strong></a></span></p>]]></description>
<date>9/24/2009</date>
<time>1:08:00 PM</time>
<link>http://www.brodypro.com/blog//?view=plink&amp;id=123</link>
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<title><![CDATA[Accountability: 5 Keys to Manage Success]]></title>
<description><![CDATA[<p class="MsoNormal">Last week, I presented a program in <st1:state w:st="on"><st1:place w:st="on">Arizona</st1:place></st1:state> called &ldquo;Accountability: 5 Keys to Manage Success (Yours &amp; Others).&rdquo; </p><br /><p class="MsoNormal">The audience was leadership and management professionals from a luxury, private country club.</p><br /><p class="MsoNormal">This is a different audience than the corporate types who I typically work with. That being said, the issues are always the same.</p><br /><p class="MsoNormal">There are people who need an <strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal">attitude</strong> adjustment (one of the topics covered). </p><br /><p class="MsoNormal">There are organizations that don&rsquo;t do regular<strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"> performance</strong> appraisals/discussions, which creates a disconnect with employees -- and often less than stellar results.</p><br /><p class="MsoNormal"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal">Behaviors </strong>impact all relationships, and your reputation.</p><br /><p class="MsoNormal"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><em style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal">So often, it is the smallest behavior gaffes that create problems within a team, company, or with customers. <o:p></o:p></em></strong></p><br /><p class="MsoNormal">And, in this current climate of financial uncertainty, the willingness to demonstrate <strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal">courage</strong> is more critical than ever.</p><br /><p class="MsoNormal">Finally, the willingness to put things into <strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal">perspective </strong>may change how you look at life and work.</p><br /><p class="MsoNormal">If you have thoughts on any of these five &ldquo;keys&rdquo; for managing your success and others &ndash; let me know.<o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></p><br /><p class="MsoNormal"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></p>]]></description>
<date>9/14/2009</date>
<time>3:21:00 PM</time>
<link>http://www.brodypro.com/blog//?view=plink&amp;id=122</link>
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<title><![CDATA[September Means Back to School Time – But, It’s Not Just for Kids]]></title>
<description><![CDATA[It&rsquo;s back to school time.<br /><p class="MsoNormal">Doesn&rsquo;t the Labor Day holiday always remind you of that?</p><br /><p class="MsoNormal">Of course, if you have children, you&rsquo;re probably breathing a sigh of relief.</p><br /><p class="MsoNormal">But, what does this time of year mean for all of us in business?</p><br /><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-list: Ignore">1)<span style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span>Four months to make our 2009 goals.</p><br /><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-list: Ignore">2)<span style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span>Planning and budgeting for 2010</p><br /><p class="MsoNormal">For most businesses, 2009 has been a tough year. Many professionals have dealt with change, the unknown, and more responsibilities as their colleagues have been laid off.</p><br /><p class="MsoNormal">What can get lost in times of workplace chaos and change?</p><br /><p class="MsoNormal"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><em style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal">The ongoing importance of professional and personal development.<o:p></o:p></em></strong></p><br /><p class="MsoNormal">This really <em style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal">is </em>the best time to go &ldquo;back to school.&rdquo; Your own development cannot take a back seat. After all, you don&rsquo;t want to be left behind at the end of the year &ndash; or &ldquo;expelled!&rdquo;</p><br /><p class="MsoNormal">I have no idea what the new economy will look like.&nbsp;<strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal">But, I <em style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal">do</em> know, however, that winners don&rsquo;t wait.<o:p></o:p></strong></p><br /><p class="MsoNormal">What do you need to do for yourself and your staff these next four months?</p><br /><p class="MsoNormal">Fortunately, we at BRODY are still booking 2009 programs for our enlightened clients -- the ones that realize they must still provide skills training for their employees, so they will continue to excel.</p><br /><p class="MsoNormal">If you want to do something for yourself (or your team), consider registering for our <a href="http://www.brodypro.com/v2/b_camp.html">BRODY BOOST Camps</a> being offered in San Francisco on September 24, and again in Philadelphia on October 8<sup>th</sup>.</p><br /><p class="MsoNormal">School is never truly over!</p>]]></description>
<date>9/9/2009</date>
<time>3:58:00 PM</time>
<link>http://www.brodypro.com/blog//?view=plink&amp;id=121</link>
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<title><![CDATA[Are All Presentations Created Equal?]]></title>
<description><![CDATA[<p class="MsoNormal">I just facilitated a customized presentation skills program for regional sales managers of a very large medical device company. </p><br /><p class="MsoNormal">Their objectives were to understand the differences and similarities between these types of presentations:</p><br /><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Wingdings; mso-fareast-font-family: Wingdings; mso-bidi-font-family: Wingdings"><span style="mso-list: Ignore">&sect;<span style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'">&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span>management vs. leadership</p><br /><p style="TEXT-INDENT: -0.2in; MARGIN-LEFT: 0.2in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; tab-stops: list .15in" class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Wingdings; mso-fareast-font-family: Wingdings; mso-bidi-font-family: Wingdings"><span style="mso-list: Ignore">&sect;<span style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'">&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span>formal vs. informal</p><br /><p style="TEXT-INDENT: -0.2in; MARGIN-LEFT: 0.2in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; tab-stops: list .15in" class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Wingdings; mso-fareast-font-family: Wingdings; mso-bidi-font-family: Wingdings"><span style="mso-list: Ignore">&sect;<span style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'">&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span>informative vs. persuasive</p><br /><p style="TEXT-INDENT: -0.2in; MARGIN-LEFT: 0.2in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; tab-stops: list .15in" class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Wingdings; mso-fareast-font-family: Wingdings; mso-bidi-font-family: Wingdings"><span style="mso-list: Ignore">&sect;<span style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'">&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span>face to face vs. phone, web, etc.<o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></p><br /><p class="MsoNormal">The irony -- although they are different, the bottom line is the same.</p><br /><p class="MsoNormal"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal">All types of presentations have two things in common:<o:p></o:p></strong></p><br /><p class="MsoNormal"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="mso-list: Ignore">1)<span style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal">A message to structure and develop to achieve a result<o:p></o:p></strong></p><br /><p class="MsoNormal"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="mso-list: Ignore">2)<span style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal">Delivery that<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </span>engages the audience members and accomplishes the goal<o:p></o:p></strong></p><br /><p class="MsoNormal">Is it possible to give presentations that are a combination of management and leadership, informative and persuasive? </p><br /><p class="MsoNormal">Yes.</p><br /><p class="MsoNormal"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><em style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal">It comes down to what you want that audience walking away knowing, doing and feeling.<o:p></o:p></em></strong></p><br /><p class="MsoNormal">Should you prepare less because it&rsquo;s informal?</p><br /><p class="MsoNormal">Not really.</p><br /><p class="MsoNormal">It&rsquo;s always respectful to your audience (be it one or many) to be clear about your objectives and to deliver the message with clarity and enthusiasm.</p><br /><p class="MsoNormal">In future blogs, I&rsquo;ll get more specific about the differences and similarities between management and leadership presentations, and ways to be effective while presenting.</p><br /><p class="MsoNormal">If you want to bring this custom &ldquo;Speaking to Lead&rdquo; program to your team, <u><a href="http://www.brodypro.com/v2/l_connect.html">let us know!</a></u></p><br /><p class="MsoNormal">&nbsp;</p>]]></description>
<date>8/27/2009</date>
<time>11:01:00 AM</time>
<link>http://www.brodypro.com/blog//?view=plink&amp;id=120</link>
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<title><![CDATA[Visual Aids 101: Help, Not Hinder Your Next Presentation]]></title>
<description><![CDATA[<p class="MsoNormal">Are you suffering from &ldquo;death by PowerPoint?&rdquo; </p><br /><p class="MsoNormal">Many people in corporate <st1:country-region w:st="on"><st1:place w:st="on">America</st1:place></st1:country-region> are.</p><br /><p class="MsoNormal">You know the symptoms &hellip; yawning participants during your slide shows or distant looks from half of the audience who are staring at your screen like zombies. </p><br /><p class="MsoNormal">Let&rsquo;s be real. I personally have <em style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal">never </em>heard, &ldquo;Oh good &ndash; another slide!&rdquo; I&rsquo;m sure you would agree.</p><br /><p class="MsoNormal">So, where is the problem?</p><br /><p class="MsoNormal"><em>I believe most presenters create their slides and think they have a presentation.</em></p><br /><p class="MsoNormal">Wrong!</p><br /><p class="MsoNormal"><strong><em>What they should be doing is writing the presentation, and then determining where a slide would add value, impact and interest.</em></strong></p><br /><p class="MsoNormal">When audience members need specific information to study, and to share with others, give them the complicated details in advance, or at the end of the presentation. Then, simplify when presenting.</p><br /><p class="MsoNormal">What are some guidelines?</p><br /><p class="MsoNormal"><o:p><strong>1)</strong>&nbsp;</o:p>Use pictures (personal photographs or high-end, online stock images) whenever possible &ndash; as long as they reinforce the message.</p><br /><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in"><strong>2)</strong> Use charts and graphs to help explain trends and numbers.</p><br /><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in"><strong>3)</strong> Limit the bullet points.</p><br /><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in"><strong>4)</strong> Use the &ldquo;B&rdquo; key to blank out the screen. It pulls the attention back to the speaker.</p><br /><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in"><strong>5)</strong> Start and end with no slide, so you can make the personal connection with the audience.</p><br /><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in"><strong><em>Slides are tools &ndash; and shouldn&rsquo;t be used as a crutch. Remember, they are visual aids &ndash; not presentations.</em></strong></p><br /><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in">Your audience will thank you for not having them suffer a tedious &ldquo;death by PowerPoint.&rdquo;<o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></p><br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"><strong><a href="http://www.brodypro.com/v2/Training_Workshops.html">Click here for more information about BRODY&rsquo;s presentation skills training workshops</a></strong> </span>]]></description>
<date>8/20/2009</date>
<time>11:43:00 AM</time>
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<title><![CDATA[Virtual Or Face-to-Face Communication – The Objective is the Same]]></title>
<description><![CDATA[<p>What do YouTube, blogs, Twitter, Facebook, LinkedIn, webinars, Kindles, Ezines, teleseminars, etc., all have in common?</p><br /><p>Communication and connection.</p><br /><p class="MsoNormal"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><em style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal">It doesn&rsquo;t matter whether you have only 140 characters or 2 hours to present your message, it needs to be clear, focused, and applicable to the audience at hand.<o:p></o:p></em></strong></p><br /><p class="MsoNormal">Good news &ndash; that&rsquo;s what we do. BRODY Professional Development teaches all communication skills. </p><br /><p class="MsoNormal"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal">We help people create memorable (for the right reasons!) messages.<o:p></o:p></strong></p><br /><p class="MsoNormal">If you want to know more about who we are, and what we do, <a href="http://www.brodypro.com/v2/BRODY%20Training%20Course%20Catalog%202009.pdf"><strong>check out our course catalog.</strong></a> Or, browse through our <a href="http://www.brodypro.com/v2/products_webinar.html"><strong>webinar and teleseminar offerings.</strong></a> Don&rsquo;t forget to also <a href="http://www.brodypro.com/v2/l_resources.html#"><strong>download any of our helpful articles and tips/techniques</strong></a> on presentation skills and related communication topics.</p><br /><p class="MsoNormal">If you know people who want to &ndash; or <em style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal">need</em> to -- enhance their communication skills, give us a call! </p><br /><p class="MsoNormal">We guarantee results.<br /><br /><br /><br /></p>]]></description>
<date>8/14/2009</date>
<time>12:15:00 PM</time>
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